Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get confident and get the girl…
Fix your low self-esteem... so women will be all over you
So many people are concerned with the importance of self-esteem – of thinking highly of oneself.
How can this really help you? How can this really start to shape you into someone who you yourself actually like?
There is no doubt in my mind that no matter who you are, or where you are, right now there are certain qualities and characteristics that make you attractive as an individual. The biggest issue right now for you is that your low self-esteem is making it very difficult to recognize those qualities in yourself… so you have to get some help with your low self-esteem. As a result, when you are projecting yourself out into the world, even if others are taking notice of your good qualities and the things that really stand out about who you are – you are going to disregard them or not even realize that they are there.
An excellent example is people who find it really difficult to take a compliment.
Either they play it down, or just simply accept the compliment though they do not believe it to be true. It makes it very difficult for you to be able toattract women, especially women with high self-esteem, when you are showing that you do not respect or value yourself as an individual.
How can you overcome low self-esteem? How can you get on that same level with other people – especially women of high self-esteem?
I would say it is all about working gradually, step by step. It might be some simple things like starting to eat a healthier diet, and getting your nutrition in order. It is amazing how much nutrition really affects us. Not just on a physical level, but on a mental level too. The right vitamins, minerals, and the knowledge that we are eating them, is amazingly beneficial.
I have built, from personal experience, an awareness of what things have a negative impact; and I have noticed that if I eat poorly for a week, or drink too much, or maybe engage in things that are not necessarily good for my body, I start to think negatively. I just generally feel a lot worse. To overcome low self-esteem, I think it’s important to be focusing on some really simple life changes. They do not have to be too out there, or too extreme. They can be some simple things like improving your diet, improving the quality of your sleep, taking better care of your skin and your body. Gradually this will start to build up your image and build a bit of a better relationship with yourself.
Is it possible to come off as though you are arrogant or bragging, in regards to giving off a high self-esteem?
Healthy self-esteem is not about bragging. It is not about being arrogant. It is simply about really respecting yourself and not looking down on yourself. Arrogance to me would be one extreme end, while a total disrespect for yourself would be the other extreme. When you start to overcome your low self-esteem, it definitely would not come across as arrogant or bragging.